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Personal - Prayers please

Some of you might remember the first AN in Forgotten. My friend with the 5 kids just lost her husband this morning. He was 50 and healthy as ever and we are all shocked and devastated by this, but her more than most.

We have been friends since before I got married and this friendship has lasted more than half my life. You guys can probably thank them in some form or other for some of the stories and scenarios in both Sleeping Beauty and Trophy Wife in particular as her husband is 50 and she is 38, and when they met, she was a model. She was rebellious, stubborn and unafraid to push boundaries and her husband was the most patient man I've ever known. She was actually one of the few people who encouraged me when I got married so young but she said leave the kids till later. She's like a tornado and he was always so unruffled in the face of her.

I know many of you aren't married and possibly cannot understand how painful this is, but if you think of the Jungs, both HoMin and YunJae, and imagine Changmin and Jaejoong without their Yunho...this is happening in real life.

If you could spare some positive and healing thoughts, it would be appreciated.

This is a reminder to me as well, to cherish the ones who love you and the people around you because you never know when they may be taken from you.


My prayers and condolences for your friend and her family as they go through this time 🙏🏾

Omg Nikki ;; how horribly sad... prayers for your friend. I can't imagine...

please pass my condolences to your friend and her family. I hope she will have time to grieve and come out of this as a strong mother for her 5 children.

thank you nikki for sharing this with us. it means you consider us not only readers but your friends too. ^^

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😢 that's devastating. my mother became a widow at 32. My father was her first and greatest love, when he passed away I saw how much she suffered. I remember her telling me that if it wasn't because we (their children) needed her she would have gone crazy and followed him.

i will be including your friend in my prayers. 🙏🏻

I'll be praying for your friend and her family and for you. My sincere condolences.

I understand how it feels to lose your healthy husband suddenly and without warning.

What your friend is going through is terribly tough, but be there for her even if she pushes you away a little.

My condolences go to her, you, and everyone who knew and loved him. May he Rest In Peace. Stay strong.

May he Rest In Peace...sending prayers her way.I'm so sad to hear this...

My sincere condolences to your friend and her family. Pray for her to be strong and keep on going.

PS - have to agree that you need to live life to the fullest and cherish your loved ones and not to take things for granted.

I am sorry for your loss & more so her loss. I pray that she finds strength in the memories they had together to push forward and make more memories for her children. Have strength and if you believe in God faith that you will all meet again in a better place.

I'm so sorry for your friends loss. Pls know that they will be included in our prayers.

Prayers for your friend. I don't knoe if you believe a life after death. But I hope they'll can meet again & be together & have a family like this in their next life also. Always believe all of you will meet again in another place. I'm so sorry to here this.

Words will never be enough to describe what she is going through now. I hope she will come to terms & have the strength to carry on. Ultimately her husband left her with the best gift in life - love & memories of their time together. My condolences & prayer to her and her family.

Really sorry to hear this sad news Nikki.
My prayers and condolences to your friend and her family... hope his soul rest in peace. It is always hard to lose your loved ones, wishing your friend all the strength in this period and also, she has you as a friend around as support.

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Condolences to your friend and her family. May her husband rest in peace, God will always be there for them; through this time and after. 🙏🏼