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This is getting out of hand...
YH02
beeswaxing
There is blind hatred, and then there's you.

Please don't go there.


I need all you "well-wishers" to please stop sending me anon ask.fm messages regarding the hateful stuff you've seen being mentioned about me. I don't need to know, and I really couldn't care less. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt about your motivations behind sending me these messages, although I am still side-eyeing the first message because it only had the twitter account of this person in it and nothing else. I was about to reply with "huh?" to the message that only had the @username in it, and i'm glad I clicked on it first because what the hell?

I didn't think I needed to do this, but i've already received five ask.fm messages already after the first one in the last two days, mostly with personal attacks on these people. I don't really take part in fandom, nor do I engage in it. I interact with my tlist, and I get updates from twitter and from my friends. I don't really do anything else in fandom apart from write fics and jizz embarrassingly over Yunho. I'm not here for some imaginary popularity contest that people seem to assume I want to be a part of.

So all i'm asking is for you not to stoop to her level. She's entitled to her opinion, as you are to yours. If she thinks i'm a "terrible person who writes terrible fic", that's her business. You make it my business when you tell me about it and to be perfectly honest, I really don't give a shit.

Let them hate to their heart's content.

Just don't bring my attention to it because hate is an emotion I do not wish to engage in.

So basically, any further messages about all these "hateful" people will be deleted. I appreciate that you are angry about it, but this is kpop and as one of my friends said to me over the issue, if you're investing any negative emotions into it, you really need to take a step back. This fandom is heartbreaking enough without any additional self-induced angst.

Do yourself a favour and just ignore. When you pay attention to it, you're just feeding the beast.

Let it go.
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ILU too, bb. And i'm slightly amused at your official LJ account ;-)

I still don't understand why ppl take actual time out of their lives to be mean and put someone down. Yes, I get that everyone is entitled to their own opinions but do you really have to spread it to the 'world' when really it doesn't do anyone any good and just shows what kind of character you have?

I personally admire you a lot Nikki!!! :DDD

WE LOVE and ADMIRE you DEAR ^^

well said! I admire how you are dealing with this, you just gave me another reason to crush on
you..i like that you can spazz over yunho like crazy( yunho is spazzworthy and i spazz like crazy over him too), and then exhibit an admirable amount of grace and maturity in situations like this. ^_^

“Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn't have the time to sit around and talk about you. What's important to me is not others' opinions of me, but what's important to me is my opinion of myself.”
― C. JoyBell C.

there's seems to be hate everywhere

and for not reason people seems to enjoy and think they NEED to tell hateful things to others.

It amazes me when people feel they're so important that everyone else gives a shit about their opinions....

Kudos to you for a great response.

Not sure what exactly is going on, seems to be targetted against one person? I dunno, but I agree wholeheartedly this. Keep calm, ship and always keep the faith.

I hope people understand where you're coming from with this post, and that they know you mean them (omg what if you meant me and I don't realize it and am agreeing with you like an idiot... Oh well ) :-)

Hwaiting with your writing.
There is plenty of drama in life to want to get involved in unnecessary drama. Unless for amusement :-)

Let the truth be spoken!

I'm not sure what exactly happened, but it doesn't matter whether it's fandom, or if it's just life.
People shouldn't be saying hateful things in the first place.
What are they getting out of it?
Sure they get here-sayers and agreeing people but most of the time it doesn't go beyond that.

either way, you're awesome in my eyes with an incredible writing talent.^^
you're an example on how to approach these types of things honestly.

((this is why i keep to myself,and just ship the ships and always keep the faith. . . . or fangirl over the boys.))

don't know why some ppl even take time to hate on others
weird but oh well

Love your attitude! You're right, it doesn't matter what people say and it's better to just ignore it. There are a ton of people who think you are awesome, including me! I love your writing too.^^

That's the ideal way to deal with it. I always do it too. Ignore those hateful people because they have zero significance in my life. And as I sometimes realize, fangirling is just time-wasting enough, there is no need to waste more time being pissed of by people whom you don't ever know and will never in the entire life.

OT5s and YunJae shippers in my tlist have mostly thrown absurdly negative comments, but I always think why I barely get one. Well that's because I never pay attention and most of all searching my twitter name lol. Those people can just enjoy their time hating others and they won't get any reaction from me. PEACE!

Keep calm and write great fics!
Cheer up <3

very well said unnie ~ ❤

woahh really lot crazy people who have lot time to lecture, I just dont get it u not like dont read so simple like that why must butt hurt somebody thought so insane

somehow if a writer is getting well-known in this fandom..there will be insecure people who will spat terrible things. you're right to ignore.:) bon courage!

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