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My husband is trying to play HERO...
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So my husband was in Thailand last week for work and apparently the bugger shouldn't be allowed out anywhere because he tossed some lecherous tour guide overboard on the yacht they were on, held onto him by the scruff of his shirt, and threatened him for being such a cad with the girls (married and unmarried) on the boat. Well, basically he told the guy if he had spoken to his wife (me) the way he has been to the other females, he'd be swimming to shore.

And then he proceeds to toss the man back on deck, and apparently not a peep was heard from the guy henceforth.

Anyway, my story is not really related, but I just wanted to show you that my husband has HERO tendencies and he just may be yours... OTL



I finally told him about what happened the last week, and he understood why I was upset and everything... but he also pointed out that i'm punishing the majority for the actions of a minority. He admitted that he hasn't read much of my stuff but whatever i've allowed him to read has been evoking enough to him that he can imagine everyone else getting sucked into it like he did, and if that's the case, I shouldn't stop making people happy. He reminded me that i'm always striving to influence whatever small sphere of influence I have to better society in whatever way I can, so why did I stop doing it?

"Do you want to be responsible for the tears of an unknown person because you took away one of the things that genuinely made them happy in a fandom that you describe yourself as broken, fandom is broken?"

Well, what about my tears, dude? I asked him. And he said he knows I am stronger than any other person he knows and i'll be alright.

I explained how writing is like me divulging part of my soul and he told me "if it heals you, and heals others at the same time, why keep it for yourself?"

And let me just tell you I kinda hate my husband right now.

He did add a disclaimer though.

"Remind your readers, trust and respect. I'm trusting them to look after you, and I hope they respect you enough to make sure this doesn't happen again. You cannot claim to love someone and then hurt them over and over again."

Well, I don't know what kind of fucking armour he thinks I have...

So yeah...



PS: The conversation was pretty long actually but i'm not going to go into the argument lmao!


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I agree with your DH! Trust and respect! Please fellow readers lets not lose this respect and trust again!!!!

Wow your husband...a knight in shining suit (?) has come to rescue your readers.
Please send my love to him and I wish I would find a hubby like him. LoL

Anyways, I accept and respect your choice. Even if you would not post anything, I reckon that is your rightful choice. We are merely humans, who naturally react upon what we eencounter and yes we always protect ourselves first, otherwise how can we survive in this malicious community.

Hero resides in everyone...but when he comes out when he wants to protect his loved ones.

I agree also. I think all of your regular readers who have been around this past week understand the seriousness of respect (and most already did even before). I just hope that any new readers you may get will also understand. And yes, I love your husband! He sounds like a great guy from all of the stories you've told about him.^^

nikki, i honestly think i might kiss ur hubby for stating ur readers' feeling (wait, i'm not risking myself to be killed so that was only a thought). don't u think u already have a real "Yunho" guy in real life?
ps: nikki hubby, i thank u, eventhough it'll took time for nikki to trust us again, but ur thought counted.

awww.... Nicki your husband is the most supportive and loving husband... hehehe,
can I ship you and your husband? hehe :)

uhhh, can you say our thanks for your husband for us? hehehe, I know this sounds ridiculous, being us not really knowing your husband personally but from the stories you have told, it really makes me feel like I know him personally... kkkk.

anyway, he's right... TRUST AND RESPECT is one of the most important thing in this fandom and I kinda felt overwhelm when he told you that he trust us to look after you and your work... in which I hope that we won't fail you and your OH..

how can your husband be so....omg idk how to describe him actually. HAHAHAA!
Oh well, eonnie T^T I still dont understand why people cant even understand your "DO NOT TRANSLATE/DISTRIBUTE MY FICS" rule. Im also mad about them because, we , the faithful, loyal, respectful [mehhh. j/k]. As I was saying, unlike most of us who just reads from your journal is already happy, why cant they?? /sighs/ I'll send you hearts~ (っ◕‿◕)っ ♥♥♥♥♥

Awww... your husband is so cute. And sweet.

UGH I CANNOT THANK YOU ENOUGH RIGHT NOW. MY FRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN CRYING EVER SINCE YOU LOCKED YOUR FICS ;____; IM SORRY THAT THOSE HORRID HUMAN BEINGS TRANSLATED YOUR FICS WITHOUT PERMISSION AND I HOPE IT WONT HAPPEN AGAIN >< BUT SERIOUSLY. THANK YOU FOR OPENING THEM UP AGAIN. SORRY FOR BEING A SILENT READER BUT YOU DONT EVEN KNOW HOW MUCH MY FRIEND AND I ENJOY YOUR FANFICS <3 UGH SORRY IM LITERALLY TEARING UP RIGHT NOW.

ok, I'm completely in love and a fan of your husband now Nikkie T^T I really hope you don't mind. Now I can really tell why you keep saying he 'is' your Yunho TT____TT I also really hope we don't we all don't disappoint you and him in the trust you're giving us. Really. I don't know how many times your fics have made my day. Thank you.

You have a very sweet and loving husband. Happy for you :-)

can i haz your husband? ;~;

you're both so lucky to have each other :D
don't worry, nikki... we'll look out for your fics!

What a man! Take good care of him<3